This article is to help you build a query that will report all families and their lifetime giving. This query will exclude non-givers since it is looking for giving history.
First, add the columns, starting with Contributions - Family DUID, followed by the SUM of contributions which has been renamed as 'Lifetime Giving' in the example. See below for other options for columns/renaming of columns.
It's recommended to add a column for Organization > Organization Name and add the sort ascending function for a quick method of organizing the data.
Finally, I added a condition stating the contribution amount should be greater than 0.
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